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Grades level iconsGrades 9–10
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Love Yourself

Quran Samad, age 15, 826 Valencia
A young Black student's perspective on how it feels to grow up Black in the United States.
About the Author

Quran Samad was born in Oakland, CA and is 15 years old. Most of her family is from San Francisco, CA but eventually migrated to Oakland, CA. She loves to Write, Sing, Dance and be a helping hand whenever she can, she loves to do hair, makeup and nails and would love to pursue a cosmetology career. But overall she hopes that one day she can follow her dreams and become a General Surgeon.

Quran’s piece was first published in Cherished Like a Bright Star: A Collection of Writing by Young Authors, ages 8-19 from 826 Valencia’s Black Students Initiative. You can purchase the collection from 826 Valencia here.

Love Yourself

 

Love Yourself

How does it feel to grow up in the United States isn’t the right question, the real question is “How does it feel to grow up Black in the United States?” A young Black man’s perspective and experience growing up here is way different from a young white man’s.

It feels bittersweet. It’s not all bad and it’s definitely not good, growing up Black here you have to watch your back. You have to
live in fear. You have to be careful, you have to be brave. You have to be Strong, independent, successful, angry, and the list just goes
on. To grow up here it’s confusing and stressful because if I’m not one thing, I’m another. There are so many rules and standards that
us as Black people are expected to live up to, if I’m too loud I’m “ghetto and ratchet.” If I’m too quiet I’m a “punk and scary.” If I’m not dressed a certain way I’m “poor” or a “h**”—if I’m outspoken I’m “irritating or do too much.” We never get a break and when we aren’t successful we fit the “broke ghetto and ratchet” stereotype.

How is my vision of a world? It would be nothing like this and everyone would be equal and treated equally. The only way that
can happen is if everyone loves themselves. Because if you don’t love yourself, it’s hard to love someone else. You’d have to be right
with yourself before you love someone else.

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